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Gifts for the Wedding Party
Yes, you do have to give each of your attendants a gift to thank them for all they have done. After all, they have been here for you through thick and thin, getting you to your wedding day. They may have helped you pick out your wedding dress or tux or calmed your nerves when you got the wedding day jitters. Each person in your wedding party deserves a special gift from you and your husband to be.You must first decide on how much you can spend for each gift. Once you have a budget amount, then it is time to putting some thought and effort into the special gifts you are going to give. The thought behind the gift is more important than the amount of money spent really, so remember that when deciding what to give.
Gifts fall into two categories, something they will wear on your wedding day to complete their outfits or something totally unrelated to your wedding. If you have the budget and want to give something for them to wear on your wedding day, jewelry is always a nice touch. Be sure a choose an item that will compliment the color they are wearing. From a simple bracelet or pair of earrings to a dressy evening bag all are good choices. Gold or silver jewelry or even pearls are always welcomed. A nice set of cuff links is always nice selection for the groomsmen. Another great idea is a gift basket of food and/or wine, bath goodies, candles, or aromatherapy items. A nice silver frame with a photo of the two of you is always nice. Engraved pen and pencil sets are another option. If you choose to get items engraved, please be sure and allow enough time for the engraving, so the gifts are ready before your wedding day. Gift certificates are also nice and an easy way for each person to pick out what they want. Engraved silverplated items such as mugs or clocks are another idea of gifts you can give. The most important thing is to put some thought into what your attendants like and choose accordingly.
Many bride and grooms also give gifts to their parents and grandparents on their wedding day. Monogrammed handkerchiefs with the bride and groom’s name and wedding day embroidered on it are nice cherished keepsakes. Engraved silver picture frames with you and your parent/s or grandparent/s pictures are items that will be treasured for many years to come.
Don’t forget the priest, rabbi, and minister or officiant of your ceremony, as they usually are not compensated for weddings. A cash gift is appreciated. Ask them what they charge. If they do not give you an answer other than whatever you want, then check with some of your newly married friends to see what they paid to get an idea of what is customary for the particular place where you are being married. If they refuse your offer, then make a donation in their name to the church or place of worship of their choice. Several hours of their time is spent on your wedding so don’t shortchange them with just a $20.00 bill. They are an important part of your celebration and should be compensated accordingly.
You should also remember to thank all those who helped make your wedding day special. The waiters, delivery people, bartenders, the photographer, the videographer, band members, caterers, florist, etc. If they give you extra good service, you should also consider tipping them as well. A good rule to follow is 10% to 15% and even up to 20% for outstanding service. Another nice touch besides thanking them and tipping is to write a personal thank you to the business that provided the excellent service. This is a future recommendation from you to them for future business.
Don’t forget to include these tips in your budget. This is one area many brides overlook so be forewarned so you don’t have to skimp here.
The most important thing to remember here is to take the time and put some thought into the gifts. Also, play it safe, give similar or the same gift to avoid any presumption of favoritism. Above all, remember the part each one is doing to make your day special for you.
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